Learn how to get rid of personal weakness
People by nature do not like the spineless, that oscillator man who does not improve decision-making is not the face of others, not fluent in expressing their views and defend them, do not behave in a crisis and the difficult things.
So was the treatment of personal weakness is his importance and stature, and worthy youth care of him, that it is not necessary for the young man of realism and not an illusion, many believe in themselves personal weakness, especially if they can not get to a particular requirement or achieve the destination sought him, and the exaggeration of them and contempt for themselves, and perhaps led them this illusion to other diseases need to be addressed, and it must be noted that the person may have a strong personality in the position or somewhere, is not available to him in the position or somewhere else, the matter if a relative, and there is no limit personal weakness, but there are certain aspects of the signs of a personality disorder should be addressed.
A manifestation of personal weakness:
1. Inability to take any decision, even in personal matters.
2. fear and shame of the speech of others, or their conversation.
3. The lack of control over emotions and feelings. But drifting behind without knowing the consequences.
4. The dependence of the strongest in the opinion, thought and movements, and others.
5. frequent complaint and recourse to others even in the simplest things.
6. imitate others in their movements and their garments and even their bodies and their views and morals.
These are some of the manifestations of personal weakness, which is in fact the product of a holistic self, family and environmental overlapping and accumulated over the years of the factors, they are not the result of the day and night and it is a harvest of years ago had an impact in the formation of certain personal for each of us.
In general, a person is exposed to the wrong style education by the parents, or their deputies have an impact in that, excess Valdlal who executed a person learn to rely on himself as able to do the things, and excessive fear it, as well as excess in education so severe is not given an opportunity to express his opinion and to clarify what his mind, all this has raised the bad and ended the weakness of his character, as well as some of the other things that may be the cause of it, such as shame or fear or so and the young man who suffers from a personal weakness to determine why this is so that it can be treated, it was a shame tried to get rid of it, though, fearing sought to remove it, and so
In addition to the things that will help in getting rid of this problem, including:
First: the large number of reading and reading, especially for those persons who have distinguished themselves personal power and influence others, and the first of them and the most senior Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him and his companions, and thus frequent reading in the course of these raise in your enthusiasm to get rid of what you are in.
Thus, the frequent reading in the course of these will raise the enthusiasm to get rid of yourself than you are in. Do not forget, however, reading books interested in the modern building of the human personality, it helps young people on how to deal with others and how decision-making factors convince people and so on, these diverse reading and try the application will lead to positive results successful.
Second: identify the weaknesses you have points and try to treat and dispose of them gradually, for example, if you suffer from an inability to defend the opinion try to train yourself to defend their opinion, and it comes to you reflecting on the topic that you want to put forward and to convince people of it, and the hopes of the various aspects and knowledge disadvantages and sockets upon people, and thus evoke answered, and little by little will reach a good deal of persuading others, or at least make you think that is under consideration and attention.
Third: we must develop to have many of the skills that will help you to make yourself better in front of others, it is as much as you have mastered the skills of whatever these skills will be your status at people.
Fourth: do my effort wide of proficiency in the work assigned to you, even if it were not due to you, the frequent practice of the various and diverse business experience and you will generate transactions through which you can meet others and learn useful ways to do so.
Fifth: it is necessary to determine your goals in this life very clearly so that you can build appropriate relationships with people who are trying to achieve those goals.
Sixth: You participated in the public and private activities, family and others, participation in such activities give more human experiences through which the face of others.
Seventh: tried to talk with the people closest to you both from your relatives or friends, and then beyond that to the other, and you're all over it trying to take advantage of your positions, and then live up to speak in front of groups, little by little until you reach.
Eighth: predicting failure and put it in mind, and about the fear to take advantage of it, so as to avoid falling into the connection receives the order, nor of Tais try again time after time.
So was the treatment of personal weakness is his importance and stature, and worthy youth care of him, that it is not necessary for the young man of realism and not an illusion, many believe in themselves personal weakness, especially if they can not get to a particular requirement or achieve the destination sought him, and the exaggeration of them and contempt for themselves, and perhaps led them this illusion to other diseases need to be addressed, and it must be noted that the person may have a strong personality in the position or somewhere, is not available to him in the position or somewhere else, the matter if a relative, and there is no limit personal weakness, but there are certain aspects of the signs of a personality disorder should be addressed.
A manifestation of personal weakness:
1. Inability to take any decision, even in personal matters.
2. fear and shame of the speech of others, or their conversation.
3. The lack of control over emotions and feelings. But drifting behind without knowing the consequences.
4. The dependence of the strongest in the opinion, thought and movements, and others.
5. frequent complaint and recourse to others even in the simplest things.
6. imitate others in their movements and their garments and even their bodies and their views and morals.
These are some of the manifestations of personal weakness, which is in fact the product of a holistic self, family and environmental overlapping and accumulated over the years of the factors, they are not the result of the day and night and it is a harvest of years ago had an impact in the formation of certain personal for each of us.
In general, a person is exposed to the wrong style education by the parents, or their deputies have an impact in that, excess Valdlal who executed a person learn to rely on himself as able to do the things, and excessive fear it, as well as excess in education so severe is not given an opportunity to express his opinion and to clarify what his mind, all this has raised the bad and ended the weakness of his character, as well as some of the other things that may be the cause of it, such as shame or fear or so and the young man who suffers from a personal weakness to determine why this is so that it can be treated, it was a shame tried to get rid of it, though, fearing sought to remove it, and so
In addition to the things that will help in getting rid of this problem, including:
First: the large number of reading and reading, especially for those persons who have distinguished themselves personal power and influence others, and the first of them and the most senior Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him and his companions, and thus frequent reading in the course of these raise in your enthusiasm to get rid of what you are in.
Thus, the frequent reading in the course of these will raise the enthusiasm to get rid of yourself than you are in. Do not forget, however, reading books interested in the modern building of the human personality, it helps young people on how to deal with others and how decision-making factors convince people and so on, these diverse reading and try the application will lead to positive results successful.
Second: identify the weaknesses you have points and try to treat and dispose of them gradually, for example, if you suffer from an inability to defend the opinion try to train yourself to defend their opinion, and it comes to you reflecting on the topic that you want to put forward and to convince people of it, and the hopes of the various aspects and knowledge disadvantages and sockets upon people, and thus evoke answered, and little by little will reach a good deal of persuading others, or at least make you think that is under consideration and attention.
Third: we must develop to have many of the skills that will help you to make yourself better in front of others, it is as much as you have mastered the skills of whatever these skills will be your status at people.
Fourth: do my effort wide of proficiency in the work assigned to you, even if it were not due to you, the frequent practice of the various and diverse business experience and you will generate transactions through which you can meet others and learn useful ways to do so.
Fifth: it is necessary to determine your goals in this life very clearly so that you can build appropriate relationships with people who are trying to achieve those goals.
Sixth: You participated in the public and private activities, family and others, participation in such activities give more human experiences through which the face of others.
Seventh: tried to talk with the people closest to you both from your relatives or friends, and then beyond that to the other, and you're all over it trying to take advantage of your positions, and then live up to speak in front of groups, little by little until you reach.
Eighth: predicting failure and put it in mind, and about the fear to take advantage of it, so as to avoid falling into the connection receives the order, nor of Tais try again time after time.
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